What's wrong with being single?(can anyone tell me...please) A whole lot if you go by what you see around you. (at canteen, at movies, at garden, beachy & anyway...bikin sakit hati ouchhh...)
Being in a loving relationship has its benefits (I have no doubt about it). Someone to talk to at any given moment, someone to rub your sore shoulders after a hard day's work, someone to do things with, someone to talk at night before sleep, someone to buy you gifts at Christmas time and Valentine's Day, someone to make you feel special, and someone to whisper "I Love You" in your ear. Miss that so much...:(
Couples are better off than individuals if we think all of that above. Also, being in a relationship helps us feel "normal." It's that right?
Is there anything wrong with being in a relationship? Of course not, if both parties feel the same way towards one another and share the same commitment, values, and goals. (then it's OK)
What about being single? Typically, society views it as being out of our control. If we're single, it's because someone left us or doesn't want us. (or we dump someone else) Seldom seen as a choice, loneliness is more often seen as boring, depressing, sad, negative, and something to remain in for only a short period of time.
However, being single can be a life-saving, rejuvenating experience. In fact, one can't truly be successful in a relationship without being single for a time.(yuuup...) Being single allows us to do: ~what we want,
~when we want, and
~with whom we want without having to answer to anyone.
Basically, being single affords each of us the opportunity to discover:
~who we are,
~what we do and don't like,
~how we deal with things,
~what we want out of life,
~what our expectations are,
~what our potentials and limitations are,
~what energizes and empowers us, and
~what discourages and disappoints us.
By learning to love and care for ourselves, we can minimize the risk of hurting someone else feelings (that's the only we can truly fill). The purpose of entering into a relationship should be to share oneself with another person to trying to get from someone what is lacking in ourselves. Expecting someone else to fill in the gaps usually results in disappointments , a sense of failure, and endless resentment.
Being in an unhealthy relationship is no more admirable than being alone and isolated. However, choosing to be single can be just as satisfying (I think it's better for now)
I can't admit that the feelings was really hurt by now but it's was the only way for me (i cannot be a hypocrite girl) I was really tired thinking of this for a very long time and as a moment come then I'll sure everything will be OK. (I hope...to someone that I hurt his feelings I'm really sorry for this cause)
I feel really damn now (I'm sad, crying, crazy, trouble-marble, rude, selfish, stupid, what more I can say...) It's HURTTTTT!!!!!! Forgive me for making this trouble up, how am I gonna make you smile again??? You must really, really feel very hard now. (ohhh no...I'm crying typing this words)
Give me a words...i'm blur now????????
Being in a loving relationship has its benefits (I have no doubt about it). Someone to talk to at any given moment, someone to rub your sore shoulders after a hard day's work, someone to do things with, someone to talk at night before sleep, someone to buy you gifts at Christmas time and Valentine's Day, someone to make you feel special, and someone to whisper "I Love You" in your ear. Miss that so much...:(
Couples are better off than individuals if we think all of that above. Also, being in a relationship helps us feel "normal." It's that right?
Is there anything wrong with being in a relationship? Of course not, if both parties feel the same way towards one another and share the same commitment, values, and goals. (then it's OK)
What about being single? Typically, society views it as being out of our control. If we're single, it's because someone left us or doesn't want us. (or we dump someone else) Seldom seen as a choice, loneliness is more often seen as boring, depressing, sad, negative, and something to remain in for only a short period of time.
However, being single can be a life-saving, rejuvenating experience. In fact, one can't truly be successful in a relationship without being single for a time.(yuuup...) Being single allows us to do: ~what we want,
~when we want, and
~with whom we want without having to answer to anyone.
Basically, being single affords each of us the opportunity to discover:
~who we are,
~what we do and don't like,
~how we deal with things,
~what we want out of life,
~what our expectations are,
~what our potentials and limitations are,
~what energizes and empowers us, and
~what discourages and disappoints us.
By learning to love and care for ourselves, we can minimize the risk of hurting someone else feelings (that's the only we can truly fill). The purpose of entering into a relationship should be to share oneself with another person to trying to get from someone what is lacking in ourselves. Expecting someone else to fill in the gaps usually results in disappointments , a sense of failure, and endless resentment.
Being in an unhealthy relationship is no more admirable than being alone and isolated. However, choosing to be single can be just as satisfying (I think it's better for now)
I can't admit that the feelings was really hurt by now but it's was the only way for me (i cannot be a hypocrite girl) I was really tired thinking of this for a very long time and as a moment come then I'll sure everything will be OK. (I hope...to someone that I hurt his feelings I'm really sorry for this cause)
I feel really damn now (I'm sad, crying, crazy, trouble-marble, rude, selfish, stupid, what more I can say...) It's HURTTTTT!!!!!! Forgive me for making this trouble up, how am I gonna make you smile again??? You must really, really feel very hard now. (ohhh no...I'm crying typing this words)
Give me a words...i'm blur now????????
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I lay in bed
absorbing the loneliness that surrounds me
my eyes fill with unshed tears
contradicting my maturity
i hate showing weakness
hate feeling hurt
but i cant suppress these feelings
so i remain inert
i dont understand why this has to happen
dont want to accept that its true
my life is taking a turn
i feel as if I'm losing you
i hate having to say good-bye
hate coming to an end
hate the terrible emptiness
i have to comprehend
theres too many obstacles to over come
in a life too short for pain
and yet theres always been hurt in the world
and so it will remain
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