What's wrong with being single?(can anyone tell me...please) A whole lot if you go by what you see around you. (at canteen, at movies, at garden, beachy & anyway...bikin sakit hati ouchhh...)
Being in a loving relationship has its benefits (I have no doubt about it). Someone to talk to at any given moment, someone to rub your sore shoulders after a hard day's work, someone to do things with, someone to talk at night before sleep, someone to buy you gifts at Christmas time and Valentine's Day, someone to make you feel special, and someone to whisper "I Love You" in your ear. Miss that so much...:(
Couples are better off than individuals if we think all of that above. Also, being in a relationship helps us feel "normal." It's that right?
Is there anything wrong with being in a relationship? Of course not, if both parties feel the same way towards one another and share the same commitment, values, and goals. (then it's OK)
What about being single? Typically, society views it as being out of our control. If we're single, it's because someone left us or doesn't want us. (or we dump someone else) Seldom seen as a choice, loneliness is more often seen as boring, depressing, sad, negative, and something to remain in for only a short period of time.
However, being single can be a life-saving, rejuvenating experience. In fact, one can't truly be successful in a relationship without being single for a time.(yuuup...) Being single allows us to do: ~what we want,
~when we want, and
~with whom we want without having to answer to anyone.
Basically, being single affords each of us the opportunity to discover:
~who we are,
~what we do and don't like,
~how we deal with things,
~what we want out of life,
~what our expectations are,
~what our potentials and limitations are,
~what energizes and empowers us, and
~what discourages and disappoints us.
By learning to love and care for ourselves, we can minimize the risk of hurting someone else feelings (that's the only we can truly fill). The purpose of entering into a relationship should be to share oneself with another person to trying to get from someone what is lacking in ourselves. Expecting someone else to fill in the gaps usually results in disappointments , a sense of failure, and endless resentment.
Being in an unhealthy relationship is no more admirable than being alone and isolated. However, choosing to be single can be just as satisfying (I think it's better for now)
I can't admit that the feelings was really hurt by now but it's was the only way for me (i cannot be a hypocrite girl) I was really tired thinking of this for a very long time and as a moment come then I'll sure everything will be OK. (I hope...to someone that I hurt his feelings I'm really sorry for this cause)
I feel really damn now (I'm sad, crying, crazy, trouble-marble, rude, selfish, stupid, what more I can say...) It's HURTTTTT!!!!!! Forgive me for making this trouble up, how am I gonna make you smile again??? You must really, really feel very hard now. (ohhh no...I'm crying typing this words)
Give me a words...i'm blur now????????
Summary: Rosie and Alex had been best friends since they met in school at a young age. When Alex suddenly has to move away, Rosie is devastated and makes plans to move over to join him in Boston. However, Rosie becomes pregnant after getting drunk at her high school debs and cancels her plan to move to Boston. She raises her baby, Katie and continues to communicate with Alex through emails, letters and instant chats. They continue to deny their love for each other while going through marriages, lovers and divorces. And finally, Alex finally confesses his love (finally) for her in one final letter. In the end after loving each other for 43 years they confess their love.